What I'm For: A Follow-up From Ron Kitchens' Challenge

If you haven't stumbled upon Ron Kitchens' leadership blog or podcast, do yourself a favor and go to ronkitchens.com. In his recent blog, he challenged readers to post things they're for, and not against. Writing what you're for is a much more "half full" approach than writing what you're against, even if they end up being reciprocals of each other.

Here are mine. I am for...:

  • making my wife laugh
  • throwing the ball with my dog until her tongue hangs sideways out of her mouth
  • coffee, all day and into the night
  • craft beer over domestics
  • grip and rip, and avoiding the smart play
  • local restaurants
  • lifelong learning
  • constantly bettering yourself
  • competition
  • the type of marriage that works for both spouses
  • silent car rides every now and again
  • the one shot in golf that no one in your group can pull off, paired with the handful of other shots that are garbage
  • using my privilege to speak for those who have none
  • disobeying authority when they lack logic
  • that point where science ends and religion begins
  • traveling
  • being worldly while living in a small town setting
  • knowing stupid facts
  • an expensive cigar
  • whiskey that is too pricey paired with a steak I can't afford at this time in my life
  • breaking up the fight at the bar
  • brutal honesty
  • proof over conjecture
  • logic over emotion
  • numbers that painting the picture
  • the Foo Fighters, Eminem, and Neil Young
  • giving to those less fortunate
  • the power of education
  • knowing someone in every room
  • intellectual conversation that challenges me to the core
  • making the inappropriate joke
  • overpaying for quality
  • surrounding myself with leaders
  • being so busy that it borders on insanity
  • keeping a calendar so accurate that it borders on obsession
  • having no email in your inbox
  • always calling or texting back
  • honor and trust
  • that hole-in-the-wall spot that only carries one thing you need
  • Grand Valley State University
  • making sure I'm not a stereotype
  • being sneaky athletic
  • leaving a legacy

Thanks @ronkitchens for challenging me, and I hope that you all take the challenge on your Facebook accounts or blogs!